This page shares my best articles about repairing avoidant attachment and creating fulfilling relationships.   Articles address a broad range of challenges regularly faced by avoidants, including:  

  • Dating and finding the right partner
  • Creating a secure, fulfilling marriage
  • Addressing emotional triggers in relationships
  • Avoidant-anxious partner dynamics
  • Healing attachment trauma
  • Forging deeper friendships and professional relationships


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Anxious Avoidant Dynamics

Attachment Theory

From Ambivalence To Commitment:

An Email Course About Building A Life Of Purpose

  • Avoidants commonly experience chronic ambivalence in dating, marriage and other areas of life.
  • Left unaddressed, such ambivalence will hurt our relationships and prevent us from achieving important life goals.
  • This 5-lesson email course will address the root causes of avoidant ambivalence — and help you move beyond ambivalent patterns to greater purpose, clarity and commitment in relationships and in life.

Enroll in the free email course and get your first lesson today.

You will receive 5 email lessons over the next twenty days